There are some that say that men are from the planet Mars while women come from Venus. However, when it comes to making love, most wives believe that their husbands are going in circles, around Pluto. They just mean that a majority of husbands just do not know how to please a woman.
Fact is, the majority of men do not have any idea regarding female orgasms.
The majority of males merely are not getting a high quality sex education.
If you wish to be a carpenter, you just attend a trade school, graduate, and POOF! you happen to be a carpenter. So why can’t it be that if you wish to become a superb, satisfying lover?
Exactly where did you get your knowledge about sex ? Whispering with your pals while gaming and alcoholic beverages?
Or perhaps accidentally coming across your Dad’s collection of pornographic films and magazines?
Or those absurd sex ed courses they offered in class?
To begin with, looking back, it is most likely safe to consider that around 75% from the sex tales your friends provided you had been complete, unadulterated bull-shit, pure and simple.
Next, the porno industry is not the “real thing”. They are scripted, the girls are compensated to moan and fake orgasms.
Sure, you may have learned a few helpful positions or methods, but when porno is your primarily sex training, you certainly need more knowledge.
That simply leaves all of us with school-sponsored training, one of the most well-funded (and effective) campaign of propaganda to persuade children and teenagers not really to take part in intercourse!
They were too busy telling you about the concerns of unexpected pregnancy and STD’s and putting across complicated (and not so sexy) charts and diagrams.
They definitely must have not shared anything regarding the G-spot, clitoris or even the possibility of female ejaculation!
Sure, it is crucial that you learn about birth control, condoms, AIDS as well as HIV, but what you wanted (and needed) to learn about had been the fine art of giving several orgasms to women and other super-secrets.
In addition to this dilemma, most women are unsure of what makes them happy in bed. Most often than not, a woman will not open up to her husband since she might offend him in any way; she is uncomfortable to talk about sex; or, having never been satisfied with sex, she does not know what turns her on. Moreover, some men think that whatever turns them on, also, excites women. But, usually, it does not.
It does not come as a surprise why many husbands know nothing in bed. Though they have their basic mechanism down there, they hit like a child playing T-ball rather than an expert in baseball. Both play the same kind of game but the other achieves more and can make a hit on lucky nights.
Husbands who are reading this manual can hope for the best if they just make use of the information provided in the pages that follow. Instead of stealing bases, you will be able to hit home runs on a regular basis. When this happens, you and your wife will find more pleasure in making love and you will achieve better control and capability. As this goes on, your wife will find more ways to please you in bed and will have the desire to have sex with you more often. This will enhance your marriage as great sex results to a happy marriage. This is due to the enjoyment that sex provides.
Latest research shows that sex improves relationships by means of production of a hormone known as Oxytocin. This encourages bonding and increases different feelings such as love, empathy and relations with others. When you apply what you learn from this manual to your marriage, this will result to a win-win situation.
With what has been said, it is important to note that the most satisfying sexual relationships are found among married couples. While researchers found this to be true, at times, conservative wisdom argues with this finding.
Many have the wrong notion that those involved in relationships outside the boundaries of marriage are happier and more satisfied. On the contrary, married couples enjoy better sex than those who are not wed. It is ironic that those who go for one night stands have lousy sex lives. This just proves that you do not become a skilled lover just because you had lots of experiences with different partners.
To enjoy optimal sex with your wife, you should both find what you need, in order to be satisfied in your sex life. Unless you do this, you may never experience enjoyment. It takes time and commitment to learn. These two are lacking in one-night stands or casual relationships. Marriage allows lovemaking to flourish into something that is truly special and satisfying.
Having a monogamous relationship has its benefits. With sexually transmitted diseases up on the rise, being exclusively with your significant other make you feel safer. Those who have remained faithful since they were married will not bring any diseases to their home, unless of course this was present even before marriage. Knowing that you and your wife are safe from sexually transmitted diseases whenever you make love, intensifies the pleasure of having sex.
You can’t enjoy making love when you have the fear of getting an incurable disease after your sexual encounter. The same is true with safe sex, which is far from being enjoyable as you can feel the latex barrier between you and your lover. A married couple that is faithful does not need any protection to enjoy safe sex and this gives them an edge over other couples when it comes to lovemaking.
Lastly, I want to stress that some sexual practices may be dangerous as they may cause physical or emotional harm to either of the couple in a sexual relationship and this may leave long-term scars. This can, eventually, destroy the relationship and can be grounds for destroying future coupling. Always, be considerate with your partner and do not do anything that would make her feel uncomfortable.
The bond of marriage is perhaps one of the strongest links ever. When the link breaks, it will be worthless. Now, if you give importance to your relationship, examine if there are any weak links in your body and mind, and then, protect them. Also, don’t forget those of your wife. Next, start looking at some of the important sex secrets, which you can employ so that you can become the perfect lover.
